On August 31, 2025, the Forum for Vigilant Memory (FMV), in collaboration with the Great Movement of Rwanda, represented by Mr. Godefroid Sindayigaya, organized a couples seminar in Muhanga, southern Rwanda. A total of about 20 couples attended this event focused on unity, mutual respect, and strengthening families.
During the discussions, the couples had the opportunity to reaffirm their commitments: for wives, to respect their husbands; and for husbands, to love their wives.
Mr. Godefroid, also an FMV executive, recalled that the Bible teaches in the Book of Ephesians, chapter 5, that “wives should submit to their husbands as the church submits to Christ, and husbands should love their wives as Christ loved the church.”
The participants expressed their gratitude for this space for dialogue and learning. One of them testified: “This is the first time I have participated in a couples’ seminar in my 30 years of marriage. I thank God for this opportunity, which has enriched me and renewed my commitment to my wife.”
After the training, Mr. Ferdinand Ndayiragije, Legal Representative of the Forum for Vigilant Memory, emphasized the importance of such sessions in promoting family and social peace.
“The FMV is convinced that united, respectful, and responsible families are the foundation of a stable society. By working hand in hand with partners such as the Great Movement of Rwanda, we are not only helping to reduce marital conflicts but also supporting the Rwandan government’s vision, which places the family at the heart of sustainable development,” he said.
Broadening perspectives
Beyond the Christian references highlighted during the seminar, other traditions and approaches also emphasize the importance of respect and love in marriage. In Islam, the Prophet Muhammad taught that “the best among you is the one who is best to his wife.”
For non-believers, marital harmony is based on universal values such as communication, trust, mutual understanding, and mutual support, which family counselors recognize as the keys to a strong and lasting marriage.
To conclude the session, several couples drew close to each other tenderly, exchanging sweet words as they did on their wedding day. For the organizers, this gesture clearly demonstrated that the objective had been achieved.
Everyone left with a renewed sense of unity, respect, and responsibility, aware that the couple is the pillar of society and that strengthening it is a mission shared by all.
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Some photos from the seminar:
